"I love you and that's why I will take care of you."

Maybe reading these lines you will have the impression that you discover everything is in my soul but to be really like that?? yes it's true that here are some thoughts down on paper but I think it will still remained always something unsaid, unwritten just thought .Maybe you think that you'll understand all if you read between the lines, you may suspect it but you can not be sure never .Always I've tried to see behind words, because even if we expose our thoughts there will always exist thoughts that because of fear or other reason we have decide to keep them for us, maybe after a while not even us will remember them but they exist (which will remain only as a thoughts ).
I always considered that communication is extremely important and I'm susceptible most times .I believe it's more important what they are saying by deeds ,gestures than by words ;sometimes is easier to say what the one next to you wants to hear ;but in all cases those words come from deep down ? so it is good if that words are accompanied by actions …
Saddens me when I see people around me who think that if a person does not care taking care of herself they can do it instead. How wrong can they be and how we deceive ourselves considering that this is possible. If we don't take care of us nobody will even if there are people who think they can do it.
Ask yourself are you always 100% honest with those around you? Do you have not tried to hide something never knowing that those around you will not understand or will not agree with you about that? I'm sure you all do this sometimes.
"I love you and that's why I will take care of you." Really? How this will be possible if are hidden from you things .Sometimes we consider ourselves intelligent and most essential things escape from our sight .Do you really think it is possible to take care of a person over its desire to take care of her .you better contribute to a cause in giving a reason for her to take care of herself .and still an essential thing if you really love a person make her happy by giving to her the little things that she needs to be happy in her simplicity and its way of being not by trying to give the moon from the sky and by trying to change her and to make her love the same things as you. This it is not love is selfishness and this way you can lose it.
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